Reasons for Premature Ejaculation and How to End Early Ejaculation
Premature Ejaculation: horrible sounding words, especially when they related to me.
The fact that 20-40% of men WORLDWIDE suffer from premature ejaculation certainly did not give me a warm and fuzzy feeling--- I was not interested in being part of some weird “club”, I just wanted to find a solution to my reasons for premature ejaculation and be able to last long enough to satisfy my partner!
Believe me, my 30 second sexual experiences were driving me insane to the point where I was not able to chat up anybody; I just stopped trying to get any relationship with a woman going because I knew that once we got into an intimate situation it would end in embarrassment for me once again.
My erectile dysfunction took over virtually my whole life, my job suffered and my relationships with my family and friends became very strained . It got so bad that I became a virtual hermit and when I did go out socially it was to drown my sorrows in a lot of alcohol abuse.
I had been through two failed marriages and at the age of 42 felt that I was ready for some romance and maybe even an involvement , if I could find miss Right! Boy was I in for a surprise; I had never had any problems with my sexual experiences, in fact as a teen I had my fair share of girlfriends and one night stands, and I did not have to worry about any reasons for premature ejaculation.
Both my marriages were great while they lasted and our sexual activity was more than adequate, so when I first experienced quick ejaculation it did not bother me; I thought that it is natural because it had been a while between the second divorce and a real date.
So, after another five painful and soul destroying failures I finally realized that I had a problem. This was a crushing situation; I felt useless and overcome with anxiety and of course the whole thing became a miserable downward spiral. This made me eventually search for the reasons for premature ejaculation.
Searching for the Reasons for Premature Ejaculation and fixing my sexual disorders
In the beginning I thought that my reasons for premature ejaculation may have been caused by something I was eating, so I went through my normal diet, omitting first one food then another over a period of time and then testing myself by masturbating, but I was still the 30 seconds guy.
Then I cut out the alcohol. This did not solve my sexual disorder either. The thought of visiting a therapist drove me back to drink! I started exercising again, walking three times a week and doing a bunch of exercises at home. This I found helped a little bit, because I was now lasting a whole 60 seconds!, but still I had not found the reasons for premature ejaculation.
This was better but still useless in any kind of relationship, as I had been used to lasting for at least 6 minutes. Now you may not think that this is a long time, but according to the stats, the “average” is anything between 2 and three minutes; so I was an average guy up until I was hit with the orgasmic headaches of my premature ejaculation problem, and the horror of my reasons for premature ejaculation became a reality.
Like most guys I tried various other methods such as an erection band- this was a disaster! It was very uncomfortable and quite painful to get off afterwards; also, it does not exactly shout out “Studly”!
I then tried a few creams; for me they did absolutely nothing. Now I am not saying that they do not work, just that for me it was a bust.
Then I tried a selection of the “stay hard” pills; I found two that do the job (more or less) but the thought of having to rely on drugs or herbs in pill form as treatment for premature ejaculation for the rest of my life was a negativity I did not want to have; also, these pills are for older guys!
None of these methods brought me any closer to finding the reasons for premature ejaculation.
I then began searching the internet for answers and read many articles on reasons for premature ejaculation, as well as sexual dysfunction. This was all very interesting but did not bring me any closer to finding out my reasons for premature ejaculation.
The answer to my Reasons for Premature Ejaculation and learning ejaculatory control
I finally found the answer to my reasons for premature ejaculation when during my internet search I came across a site put up by a guy called Lloyd Lester and the reasons for my erectile dysfunction was crystallized for me. He has created a program called “Ejaculation by Command”.
When I first found his site I bookmarked it and then forgot about it. A few days later I was checking my bookmarks for another site and saw his; I thought, let`s go take another look. Luckily I had bookmarked it! I read everything on his site, (including the testimonials) and then I bought his Ejaculation by Command.
There are a few times in one`s life when you make a purchase of something (like that used auto that turns out to be golden) when you say to yourself: “that was the best buy of my life”. Well, that was my thought ten minutes into his course. It is very simply laid out and very easy to follow.
And here`s what I found was my problem: (it is ALSO the problem of most of the 20-40% of guys out there looking for the reasons for premature ejaculation) - granted, there is a percentage of guys who have a more serious cause, like damage caused by an accident, or a physical disability or being stricken by a disease,
But here it is: three steps that will change your life.
- Mental Control
- Hormone Regulation
- Physical Control
The way Lloyd explains these factors makes it easy to use. I am now able to last for 12 minutes, way longer than when I was “average”. This is mind blowing, and I`m pretty sure I`ll be able to hit the 20 or even 30 minute mark within the next month.
What`s the cost? A measly $49 !! About what I would have spent on a good night out, ( and certainly a very small amount to invest to regain my sexual prowess.)
This is such a small amount to have invested. I wish I had found Erection by Command months ago; it would have saved me tons of frustration, embarrassment and mental pain but at least now I have solved my reasons for premature ejaculation.